The rule of dating
When you hear a song you think a guy would like, send it to him on Spotify. Next time you're buying concert tickets for a band you love, buy two—and don't immediately decide who gets to be your plus-one. The key is getting the guy out of a familiar context. That's what happened to one guy Massa interviewed who met his now-fiancé on a volleyball team.
For once, don't jam your calendar with plans a season in advance. Only when they finally went out to dinner together did they both realize their connection.
Expect to split the bill, but accept if the other party offers to pay for the whole thing.
Sadly, the days in which guys were expected to pay the entire date are over.
If following rules while playing the dating game seems stifling to you, instead consider the rules to be a protective measure.
"Dating can be very emotional," says Sherrie Schneider, co-author of The Rules series of dating advice books.
What worked for your parents may not work for you, and what works for you may not work for future generations.
Setting ground rules for your own dating life will keep your emotions in check, and may even increase your chances of finding a suitable partner.
Gender roles aren't what they used to be, but that doesn't mean that men don't still love the thrill of the hunt. Don't friend him on Facebook, don't text him first and don't initiate anything.I'm regularly grateful to have been one of the last generations of teenagers who didn't have to worry about social media when it came to college crushes, but even I remember days spent staring at a mobile phone that refused to beep.I have never been a "Rules girl" (that's right, they're a tribe – Blake Lively and Beyoncé are both rumoured to have tried them, on Leonardo Di Caprio and Jay Z respectively).Unless you want to have a very awkward date that could potentially end in the guy asking you to dine and dash, bring your wallet.Also, if a guy asks you to foot the entire bill, it’s totally acceptable to not speak to him again.
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If you have any respect for the other person, or if you want to avoid bad times in the future, don’t ghost. Who wants to blow a good 15 minutes to half an hour waiting for someone, anyway? Most would feel safe to say that if a guy is sending you a penis pic, he’s probably not looking for Ms. Unless you’re looking for a fling with a jackass, just pass. Nowadays, the most common way to show disinterest is not replying.